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The Global Solution: Letting Go Of Judgments
by Walter E. Jacobson · Filed Under: Happiness · Personal Development · Politics · Positive Psychology · Relationships · Religion · Self-Improvement · Spirituality · Success · building self esteem · forgiveness · increasing self esteem · self-help
To truly forgive, we must let go of our judgments. Not just judgments as to what people did to us, but our judgments in general about the way people look and behave. Judgments are attack thoughts. Attack thoughts are unloving. When we are unloving we are reinforcing our guilt, shame and self loathing, and our self-sabotaging behaviors that go with them. Learn more about this in the Amazon Best Seller, Forgive To Win!, by Forgiveness expert, Walter E Jacobson, MD. http://walterjacobsonmd.com
The other day I heard that
“In their disapprovals are their limiting beliefs.
Most of us are unconscious of our beliefs.”
And today when I was in Sam’s Club, I judged a woman negatively because she had arms the size of my thighs. Then I caught myself and said to myself, “You say to yourself, ‘I am not a body,’ but what you are doing when you judge other people almost always involves judging them as bodies.
We all have had the experience of judging someone, and then finding out later when we actually got to know them that beneath whatever exterior they had, they were very nice, loving people who we enjoyed being around.
The ego loves to have us believe that we are separate, separate from each other and separate from God when, in Truth, we are one, one with each other as God’s creations, and one with our Creator. What better way to have us believe the ego’s lies than to have us believe that we are just bodies!
What does the Bible say about this? “God sees not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.” Wouldn’t you say we should be more Godlike in our judgements?
Thanks for your comment, Bob. Very well put.